热门搜索:网页游戏 火箭球赛 热门音乐 2011世界杯 亚运会 黄海军演
您现在的位置:首页 >> 英语散文 >> 内容

爱情与金钱

时间:2021-05-18 13:59:24 点击:

一项报告称在英国,大约有两百万对夫妻相互隐瞒个人的经济状况。另有44%的已婚人士不知道自己配偶的收入是多少。
 
Do you usually go dutch when you take someone out to dinner? Do you expect your date to pay for the whole meal?
 
Many people say that as long as there's love, money doesn't matter much. But this might change when the relationship gets serious and it can involve mortgages, joint1 current accounts and debt.
 
A survey in the UK suggested that 44% of married couples don't know exactly what their spouse2 earns. The research, conducted by a UK credit report service also found that an astonishing 1.9 million married couples actively3 try to keep their finances secret from their partners.
 
British relationship therapist Arabella Russell says: "It's very difficult to talk about money. Often there's guilt4, there's shame. To start those conversations is complicated. Money can be about how we value ourselves, how we feel valued. It's not just a simple case of talking about hard cash."
 
So if you are in a couple, it might be a good idea to check if you both are on the same page about money before bills pile up on the kitchen table and love flies out of the window. When moving in together, couples should not only talk about their personal habits but also about their financial ones.
 
Arabella Russell has a word of advice: "Accept the fact that in your relationship you might do money differently – there might be a spender there might be a saver. It's very tempting5 if your partner does things differently to say they're wrong. Do it differently but have a budget."
 
And now, back to that date… Would you be put off by someone who was attractive but expected you to pay the bill by yourself? There's food for thought…

作者:佚名 来源:不详
相关评论
发表我的评论
  • 大名:
  • 内容:
  • 关于我们 | 服务条款 | 法律声明 | 刊登广告 | 在线留言 | 招贤纳士 | 人员认证 | 投诉建议 | 合作加盟 | 版权所有
  • 学说网(www.xueshuo.org/xueshuo) © 2021 版权所有 All Rights Reserved.
  • 有害短信息举报 | 阳光·绿色网络工程 | 版权保护投诉指引 | 网络法制和道德教育基地 | 广东省通管局 | 新闻信息服务许可证 | 互联网出版许可证
  • 粤府新函[2001]87号 粤网文[2011]0483-070号 网络视听许可证1904073号 增值电信业务经营许可证:粤B2-20090059 B2-20090028

  • 学 说 网 版 权 所 有 ,未 经 书 面 授 权 禁 止 使 用
    京ICP备:05024815号
  • 技术支持:XueShuo.org